Maybe the condom was too big, too small, or just lost grip during the action.
Maybe things got too intense, and now it’s playing hide-and-seek up there. Whatever the case, there’s a way out of this, literally.
So before you go into full panic mode, let’s go through exactly what to do if a condom gets stuck in your vagina, how to get it out safely, and when it’s time to call a doctor.
Step 1: Don’t panic, your vagina is not a black hole
Let’s clear up one big misconception; the condom cannot get lost inside you forever. Your vagina is not a bottomless pit; it’s more like a closed-ended tube. The farthest it can go is your cervix, which is like a locked door at the end of the tunnel. So, relax, it’s stuck, but it’s not disappearing into your stomach.
Now, let’s get it out.
Step 2: Wash your hands & get comfortable
- Squatting down (like you’re about to sit on an invisible toilet)
- Lying on your back with knees bent
- Propping one leg up on the toilet or bathtub edge
These positions help your vaginal muscles relax, making it easier to reach in and grab the condom.
Step 3: Use your fingers
Now, gently push like you’re trying to poop. This helps move the condom closer to the vaginal opening.
- Don’t use tweezers or any objects—you could scratch yourself.
- Don’t freak out—tense muscles make it harder to get out.
Step 4: If you can’t get it out, call a doctor
Step 5: Watch for any signs of infection
Once the condom is out, everything should go back to normal. But if the condom was stuck for hours or days, bacteria could build up, leading to infections like unusual vaginal discharge (yellow, green, or bad-smelling), pain or burning sensation down there, fever or discomfort.
If any of these happen, see a doctor for a quick check-up.
How to prevent this from happening again
Now that we’ve handled the crisis, let’s avoid a repeat performance:
- Use the right condom size—too big = slips off, too small = breaks.
- Hold the base while pulling out—this stops it from staying inside.
- Lubrication matters—too much, and things can get slippery.
- Check after sex—make sure it’s still on before moving on.