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There’s something oddly romantic about the scratch of a pen on paper, the careful folding of a letter, and the deliberate act of sealing an envelope. It’s a ritual that once held the power to deliver joy, news, and heartbreak across cities and oceans. Now, in a world buzzing with WhatsApps, DMS, and voice notes, writing letters feels like a relic of the past—forgotten, but not gone.
Long before emojis and typing indicators, letters were how people poured out their feelings. Love confessions, family updates, even dramatic “we need to talk” moments all happened in ink. And it wasn’t just about the message—it was about the effort. The choice of stationery, the scent of the envelope, and the pause to reflect before each sentence. That’s the kind of intimacy you can’t double-tap.
My dad keeps reminding me of how he and my mom used to send each other letters from Cape Town to th Eastern Cape before they got married. It would take days or even a week to get a response back, but it was all always worth it. Such precious moments are indeed worth cherishing.
According to the Smithsonian Magazine, handwritten letters peaked during the 18th and 19th centuries and remained a vital communication tool well into the 20th century. Today, while digital dominates, a quiet revival is underway. Pen pal clubs, journaling communities, and letter-writing challenges are popping up online. Etsy reports a rise in sales for wax seals and vintage paper—proof that the charm hasn’t completely faded.
More than nostalgia, writing by hand has therapeutic benefits. A Psychology Today article notes that handwriting slows us down, helping to process thoughts and emotions more deeply. It’s no wonder therapists and wellness bloggers alike recommend letter-writing—even if you never send it.
So maybe it’s time to put your phone on silent, pull out a notepad, and write something real. Whether it’s to an old friend or your future self, a letter carries weight, and in today’s fast-paced world, that makes it more meaningful than ever.
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