Ofentse Tsipa breaks parenting myths with real talk

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Ofentse Tsipa is a shining example that dreams do come true. Her name, meaning “Christ has conquered,” honours her mother’s resilience after several miscarriages before her birth.

Today, Ofentse is a transformational coach based in Kenya.

OFENTSE TSIPA ON MOTHERHOOD

She juggles motherhood, marriage, and studies at United States International University-Africa, while helping others manifest love and financial success.

With a Dutch husband, two children, and a passion for self-discovery, Ofentse shares her journey openly on her popular podcast and social media.

She keeps it real, discussing everything from life hacks to personal struggles. Her story resonates deeply, especially with South Africans familiar with the Tsipa name, according to Showmax Stories.

Her brother Lemogang Tsipa is a beloved South African actor who famously portrayed Shaka Zulu on Mzansi Magic’s hit show Shaka iLembe.

OFENTSE TSIPA ON ‘THE MOMMY CLUB’

Now, Ofentse steps into the spotlight on Showmax’s newest reality series, which follows affluent Nairobi mothers navigating parenting, and high-society drama.

Known for her monthly “Mommies and Mimosas” events, she brings sparkle and connection to the show’s cast of moms.

On motherhood, Ofentse says her coaching has transformed her approach. “I’m all about manifesting magic! I’ve learned to feel my feelings and be present.

This helps me walk alongside my kids as equals, real human beings with their thoughts and feelings.

MULTI-CULTURAL FAMILIES

Forget the old-school ‘children should be seen and not heard’ mindset! My kids are both seen and heard.”

Ofentse Tsipa adds that her coaching makes her more intentional and analytical about her children’s emotions and creativity.

Being part of a multicultural family enriches her parenting style.

“We are 100% multicultural! My husband is Dutch with French influence, I’m South African—Tswana with Zulu roots—and we live in Kenya.

I like to call myself a global mama raising global citizens. We celebrate Christmas Dutch style but also honour Zulu traditions.”

OFENTSE TSIPA ON RAISING CHILDREN

Ofentse employs two nannies and offers advice for other mothers. “Trust your gut during interviews—chemistry is everything.

Hire for character, not skills. Skills can be taught. I’ve trained my nannies in the Montessori method, focusing on the child’s interests and individuality.

To keep them happy, we have weekly check-ins. It’s all about teamwork and respect. I give them autonomy and don’t micromanage.”

Asked which mom from the show she’d swap lives with for a day, Ofentse Tsipa says, “Jackie. She’s solo, balancing work and parenting.

This is similar to my life, but on a smaller scale. I’d love to experience navigating dating again and rebuilding co-parenting relationships.”

GETTING CANDID

If her kids Google her one day, Ofentse hopes they find inspiration and pride.

“I want them to see a legacy of helping people become their best selves, authenticity, and loving life while growing. I want them to feel contentment and say, ‘That’s my mom.’”

Ofentse Tsipa also opened up about postpartum struggles: “No one prepares you for it. It’s like stepping into motherhood and realising, ‘Welcome to hell.’

We talk about it on the show because it’s raw and real. We need to talk about it more.”

Her biggest joy? “Unconditional love—it’s unmatched. I love my kids more every day.” And a parenting myth she’s debunked?

‘THE MOMMY CLUB’

“You can’t control kids. I used to judge moms when their kids threw tantrums—until it happened to me! It’s about allowing them to feel and express themselves.”

People often mistake her for a snob, but Ofentse Tsipa laughs it off: “Then they meet me and say, ‘Oh my goodness, you’re so nice!’”

Her favourite reality show? “The Mommy Clubfranchise—the SA original and Sugar & Spice editions.”

Ofentse Tsipa’s story is one of resilience, authenticity, and joy—a global mama with South African roots making waves across Africa. Her journey inspires mums and dreamers alike.