Being a girl mom means you’re not only a mother but a best friend to your mini you.
Having dating conversations with your child is mandatory especially when you are seeing that they are getting into that stage now.
This does not mean you are condoning anything rather giving your child a safe space at home knowing that when anything happens, my mom is there.
Having open and honest conversations about dating with their kids is crucial for girl moms because mom can establish trust and create a safe space for their kids to discuss their feelings, concerns, and experiences.
By having these conversations, girl moms can help their kids develop essential life skills and a positive understanding of relationships.
South African DJ and businesswoman DJ Zinhle had a mother and daughter conversation with her 10 year-old daughter Kairo talking about the right age to start dating.
In a video DJ Zinhle shared on TikTok, she calls Kairo and extends her hand for a handshake sealing a deal, “Kairo, let us agree you will not have a boyfriend until you are 50.”
Kairo who could not hide her shock replied to her mother suggesting 15 or rather 20.
Her mom then flipped the camera and asked Kayla to talk to Kairo. She replied saying she is 32 and does not have a boyfriend so DJ Zinhle ended the video with saying until she is 44, she will not date whilst she laughed.
@therealdjzinhle♬ original sound – DJZinhle
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