5 of the worst Valentine’s Day gifts ever

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Valentine’s Dayis all about love, romance, and making your significant other feel special. But let’s be honest- sometimes, people get it really wrong when it comes to gift-giving. If you want to avoid an awkward moment (or an angry partner), here’s a list of the worst Valentine’s Day gifts ever and what you should give instead…

1. A gym membership (unless they asked for it)

Giving your significant other a gym membership when they didn’t ask for one is basically saying, “You should work out more.”! This is not the kind of message you want to send on a day that’s supposed to be about love.

Give this instead: If your partner is into fitness, get them high-quality workout gear, a fun fitness class together, or a couples’ spa day to relax those muscles.

2. A generic gift card

Nothing says “I had no idea what to get you” like a generic, last-minute gift card. While practical, it lacks thoughtfulness and makes the day feel transactional.

Give this instead: If you want to give a gift card, make it personal – think a gift card for their favourite restaurant, a spa day, or an experience you can enjoy together.

3. A stuffed animal (unless you’re in high school)

Unless your partner has a genuine love for plush toys, a generic teddy bear is often seen as a cliché and impersonal gift. It’s the kind of thing you get when you don’t know what else to buy!

Give this instead: If you want to go the sentimental route, get a customised gift – like a framed photo of a special memory, a scrapbook, or a personalised piece of jewellery.

4. Household appliances

Nothing says romance like… a vacuum cleaner? No, seriously – unless your partner specifically asked for a new blender or coffee maker, skip the household gadgets. Valentine’s Day is about love, not chores!

Give this instead: Focus on experiences rather than practicality. Plan a romantic date night, book a weekend getaway, or buy a meaningful gift that shows you really get them.

5. “IOU” vouchers you’ll never fulfill

Homemade “IOU” vouchers for massages, date nights, or chores might seem cute, but if you never actually follow through on them, they become a totally empty gesture.

Give this instead: If you like the idea of a romantic gesture, plan a surprise date, cook a special meal, or write a heartfelt letter expressing your love – something tangible and meaningful.

What’s the worst Valentine’s Day gift you received?

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