Bernie Littman, aged 100, and Marjorie Fiterman, aged 102, have recently made headlines by becoming the world’s oldest newlyweds, setting a Guinness World Record with a combined age of 202 years.
Their journey began at a senior living community in Philadelphia, where they met nine years ago at a costume party.
They decided to marry on May 19, 2024, after more than a decade of companionship. Guinness World Records confirmed the official recognition of their record on December 3, 2024.
This heartwarming tale is not only about breaking the records but also the power of companionship in later life and long-lasting love.
Importance of companionship in later life
As people grow old, the need for a partner becomes obvious. Studies have always shown that intimate relationship contributes significantly to the improvement of quality of life among older people. Here are some reasons why a partner is important in old age:
Emotional support and reduced loneliness
Loneliness is one of the most common problems that the elderly experience, especially if they have mobility issues or medical conditions that isolate them from others. A partner can be essential emotional support to overcome such feelings of loneliness. Studies show that individuals in committed relationships experience lower levels of loneliness and depression compared to their single counterparts. Bernie and Marjorie’s love story exemplifies how companionship can flourish even in later years, providing joy and emotional fulfillment.
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Health benefits
Married people tend to experience improved physical health, compared to the single people. Furthermore, the emotional support from a partner also tends to be beneficial for healthy lifestyle decisions such as diet and exercise. Also, physical intimacy relationships has been associated with many other health advantages such as reduced blood pressure and increased oxytocin that stimulates happiness.
1. Sharing responsibilities with your partner
Having a partner who helps in daily challenges and responsibilities, can be very helpful to elderly people who may not perform various activities such as cleaning, or managing finances, which can be very stressful and hard to handle in cases of physical limitations or decreased cognitive abilities.
2. Enhanced satisfaction of life
A study published in Evolutionary Psychological Science revealed that individuals in relationships, especially those that are fulfilling, tend to experience greater emotional well-being and life satisfaction compared to those who are single. People involved in long-term relationships appear to have higher levels of life satisfaction than those in the single. The companionship that could eventually lead into a romantic relationship significantly leads to general happiness and the overall well-being.
3. Opportunities for intimacy
Intimacy is always an essential need for everyone regardless of any age. Positive-romantic relationships provide moments of emotional and physical attachment, which improve mental states and overall quality of living. However, societal stigmas often result in the avoidance of discussion about intimacy among older adults. Many older adults feel ashamed or guilty about their sexual needs because of societal perceptions. Open discussions about intimacy can combat these feelings and promote healthier attitudes toward aging and sexuality.
This inspiring love story of Bernie and Marjorie reminds us that love is not bounded by age. Their record-breaking marriage is inspiring for those looking for companionship in old age. As society continues to evolve in its understanding of aging, it is essential to know that the pursuit of love and connection is an important part of the human experience at any stage in life.
