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The holidays are a time for love and togetherness, but they can also bring challenging family dynamics to the surface. While you want your kids to enjoy the magic of the festive season, it’s crucial to shield them from potential conflicts, overwhelming expectations, or uncomfortable situations.
Here’s how to ensure their festive season remains joyful, secure, and filled with happy memories. The Medium publication states that it is important to set and reinforce boundaries for everyone, as the safety of children takes precedence over adult feelings.
” When someone crosses the boundary, calmly let them know, that is not allowed in your family, redirect and remove the child from the situation if necessary. You do not need to worry about offending anyone because those with good intentions who care about the well-being of your child will not be offended.”
The Parents publication adds to state that to ensure a positive holiday gathering, limit interaction time between your kids and toxic family members to maintain a positive experience. It is also mentioned that you prep your children by discussing what to expect and ensuring they don’t feel uncomfortable. This will help reduce surprise or pushback and demonstrate thoughtful consideration.
“It’s also a good idea to have an exit plan in place in case a situation gets heated or uncomfortable. Plan with your partner or family members about what to do if a situation escalates. Knowing you can step away, even briefly, can relieve some of the pressure of holiday gatherings.”
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