In a happy marriage, a wedding anniversary gift is an essential purchase every single year. And for good reason. Just like marriages themselves, anniversary celebrations evolve as the years rolls by. In fact, the idea of symbolic anniversary gifts comes from ancient Roman times. Wives were crowned with silver wreaths on the 25th anniversary and gold wreaths on their 50th. But there’s a whole host of traditional gifts to familiarise yourself with in between.
So, let’s explore the first 25 years and understand why each material is symbolic. We’ll include a couple of thoughtful gift suggestions, too. Remember that while traditional gifts are meaningful, the most important aspect is choosing one that resonates with your partner. In some cases, modern alternatives may provide a more practical option. But understanding the symbolism behind traditional gifts always adds depth to your anniversary celebrations.
25 ANNIVERSARY GIFTS FOR 25 YEARS
- 1st Year – Paper represents the blank page of your new life together. Consider a handwritten love letter, custom artwork, or concert tickets.
- 2nd Year – Cotton signifies the increasing comfort and flexibility in your relationship. Think luxurious Egyptian cotton bedding, matching robes, or a cotton hammock.
- 3rd Year – Leather represents durability and security. A leather weekend bag, wallet, or matching leather journals make meaningful gifts.
- 4th Year – Fruit & Flowers symbolises the blossoming of your relationship. Consider planting a fruit tree together or joining a wine club.
- 5th Year – Wood represents the strong roots you’ve now established. A handcrafted wooden jewelry box, custom furniture piece, or wooden wind chimes are thoughtful choices.
- 6th Year – Iron is for strength and durability. Consider wrought iron garden furniture or decorative wall art for the patio.
- 7th Year – Wool & Copper represent warmth and conductivity. A luxury wool blanket, or copper jewellery pieces are the perfect choices.
- 8th Year – Bronze represents your relationship’s ability to weather any storm. Consider a commissioned bronze sculptures/artwork, or home ornaments.
- 9th Year – Pottery was historically used to make drinking vessels and is considered an important protector of essential liquid. Go full Ghosta enroll in a pottery class with your loved one.
- 10th Year – Tin & Aluminium show the flexibility and durability of your enduring love. Modern gifts might include personalised aluminium prints or a tin anniversary sign for the home.
BEYOND A DECADE
- 12th Year – Silk & Fine Linen represent the smoothness your relationship has achieved. Think silk robes, fine bed linens, or silk underwear.
- 15th Year – Crystal represents the clear and sparkling love you share. Consider crystal wine glasses/jewellery, or a stunning vase.
- 20th Year – China represents the beautiful but delicate nature of your evolved relationship. A fine china tea set, decorative plates, or a trip to China itself is a meaningful anniversary gift.
- 25th Year – Silver, like the Romans did, represents the radiance and brilliance of your lasting love. Silver photo frames, jewelry, or a silver anniversary celebration are traditional choices.
AND THE YEARS IN BETWEEN?
- 11th: Steel
- 13th: Lace
- 14th: Ivory (replaced with alternative materials)
- 16th: Wax
- 17th: Furniture
- 18th: Porcelain
- 19th: Bronze
- 21st: Brass and Nickel
- 22nd: Copper
- 23rd: Silver plate
- 24th: Musical instruments
DO YOU HAVE A WEDDING ANNIVERSARY COMING UP? WHICH GIFT WILL YOU GO FOR?
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