It’s not possible, or even normal, to like every person in your life.
It’s completely natural to dislike some people, but they may still be a part of your life, whether in a professional or personal setting.
So, what do you do in such situations? You can’t just ignore them or go up to them and say, “I don’t like you, and I don’t want to talk.” That would be rude and problematic!
So, here are some smart and subtle ways to hide that you dislike someone, according to psychology.
It’s okay not to be interested in talking to someone, but to avoid letting them sense it, try to keep your responses polite and neutral, even if not overly enthusiastic. Say things like, “I see what you mean,” or “Oh, that’s great,” to show that you’re listening. Also, avoid sarcastic, disinterested, or rude remarks and replies, as they might hurt their feelings and reveal your true emotions.
2. Control your body language
Body language often speaks louder and more clearly than words. Try to keep your expressions and body language positive, or at least neutral. Avoid folding your arms, rolling your eyes, or leaning away while they’re talking. Instead, maintain a relaxed posture, nod occasionally, and make polite eye contact. This will make you seem approachable, even if you’re not feeling that way.
3. Focus on neutral topics
If you’re stuck in a conversation with them, try talking about simple and generally safe topics like the weather, a recent movie, or someone you both know. Avoid personal and tricky subjects that might make things awkward. Keeping the conversation light and casual makes it easier to stay polite without getting too involved, and it helps keep things comfortable for both of you.
4. Actively listen without overdoing it
Listen to what they’re saying, nod sometimes, and repeat a little bit of what they said to show you’re listening. For example, if they mention work, you can say, “That sounds like a busy day!” This makes them feel heard without you having to say much. Remember, that you don’t need to agree or give your opinion- – just show you care. It’s an easy way to keep the conversation going without much effort.
5. Keep it short, but polite
If you don’t want to be around them, find a polite way to leave. You could say something like, “I need to go, but let’s talk later!” Or, be in group settings where you can talk to others and avoid one-on-one time with them. This way, it doesn’t look like you’re avoiding them. You can still be friendly but keep some space. It’s an easy way to handle the situation without being rude.
